Think about a situation when your son/daughter did something that you disliked. You felt really bad/hurt about it. Now analyze the situation in the light of these :
What they had done? Why did they say/behave in this manner? How did they react to it? How differently could you respond in this situation?
Share your reflection.
One day my son stole some money from my pocket. The next day I found this and asked him why did he do so. He said he urgently need some money to buy a book. I make him understand that he should ask for it, as taking someone's things without informing him is stealing.
ReplyDeleteMy 8 year old son enter into an agreee argument with his mother. I intervened and tried to understand his problem.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter became obsessed to get all things that she is willing.I can purchase but asked to take only important things.She got angry but I made her to understand and she agreed.
ReplyDeleteMy 3rd and the youngest one among my three daughters,during partial lockdown,while I was querying over her attending online classes,answered me so arrogantly,that I got really hurt with her behaviour.She told me that attending or not attending online classes was same to her as her classmates too believe over that like her. I was so hurt to such response of her that I immediately rebuked her loudly.But my action got no positive result to it.Later I analysed myself from her perspective and reached to the conclusion that I was wrong in handling her in such a harsh way. I could have discussed it with her in a friendly way. If I did it that way I think I would sure be successful in agreeing her to attend her online classes regularly.
ReplyDeleteSnigdha Choudhuri
Assistant teacher
TATA WORKERS UNION HIGH SCHOOL, SIDHGORA, EAST SINGHBHUM
Jamshedpur, Jharkhand
Main ne aapne bachhon ko achhe sanskar diye hain.
ReplyDeleteSUNEETA Assistant Teacher
ReplyDeleteUHS BASWARIYA DEOGHAR Jharkhand
Once my son had a fight with his class mate in school.We were informed about it.We went to his school and asked him,why he did so? He answered that the classmate used to make fun of his behaviour and his dull knowledge everyday.So he had had a fight with him.He was not sorry for what he had done.Instead he assured everyone that only good has happened.Now no one would dare to tease him anymore.But I felt humiliated to be called by the school authorities for such a matter.I thought,if he had told me before, I could have solved the problem myself by talking about the problem to his classmate and his parents.The matter could have been resolved by the school teachers if my son had complained about it to them in the school.