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Thursday, 26 August 2021
Course 5 Activity 5: Role of Peers - Share Your Thoughts
Think back to your teenage years when you tried things your friends
deemed cool, like stealing money, taking drugs, or smoking. How did you react to
the situation? What were your thoughts, feelings, and strategies?
Once, while in college, I was falsely blamed by my one of the relative that I smoke a lot. May be he might have seen me in the group of chain smokers. But I knew very well it was false, but how to defend myself was a big issue, because in this age anyone could believe it easily. My Grandfather Nana was also apprehensive but he didn't react badly rather he showed his concern with all sympathy. My Uncle however went on proving my false blame and he chided me stop going to college rather. I felt very badly because he was not supporting me financially simply blaming. But I didn't react and keep studying well. At last, I was the winner!!!
उन दिनों में हाई स्कूल में पढ़ती थी।मेरी एक सहेली थी एक दिन मुझे एक लड़की ने कहा कि तुम्हारी सहेली ने तुम्हारी कलम चुरा ली। जब मुझे इसका पता चला तो बहुत दुख हुआ क्योंकि मैं तो उस पर पूरा भरोसा करती थी। मैंने उसे बहुत ही बुरा भला कह दिया। पर कुछ ही दिनों के बाद पता चला कि उसने मेरी कलम चुराई नहीं थी बल्कि लिखने के लिए ली थी फिर उसने वह कलम मुझे लौटा दी, यह कहकर कि उसने कि उस दिन वह अपनी कलम घर भूल कर आ गई थी। मुझे अपने आप पर बहुत ही क्रोध आया, काश मैं अपनी बातों से अपनी सहेली का दिल न दुखाती।
Once we were playing 'passing the parcel'. When the packet came to me it read "give it to the person who looks like a dog." I did not know whom to pass it on. My peers pointed to a boy.i ran and gave it to him. The boy was quite sad and I realised my mistake. I wish I had not listened to my peers and would not have passed it on!
In school and College Life every student wants to look cool with cigarette in hand and making smoke rings. I also tried this several times but unfortunately failed. Moreover I didn't like the test also.
It was that phase of my life when I was in my teenagehood. I was in the 9 th standard.All along my life upto now I am too much fond of flowers. In those days I used to steal flowers from others gardens attached to my High School building.Actually I used to play the role of the mastermind for that mission in our girls group. And the other girls used to appreciate me for that.At that moment of appreciation, I could well remember that I used to feel proud.But now whenever I recall my past, I feel ashamed of it.I shouldn't have do that type of wrong things.Gradually I made understand that loving flowers doesn't mean plucking it from the gardens.
-Snigdha Choudhuri Assistant teacher TATA WORKERS UNION HIGH SCHOOL, SIDHGORA, EAST SINGHBHUM, JAMSHEDPUR
SUNEETA Assistant Teacher UHS BASWARIYA DEOGHAR I was a silent and good natured girl .I never indulged in such activities . However I remember one mistake I did, which also is a type of cheating. Actually I have studied in an English medium school and were told to speak in only English language in the school premises. Anyone who was found talking in hindi was punished.weused to talk in hindi disobeying the teachers,just for fun.We felt we are smart enough not to be caught by the teachers. Of course nothing happened much.Ut now when I look back and ponder over the matter I feel I would have learnt English language very easily and would have had rich vocabulary at my early student life.
During teenage years
ReplyDeleteOnce, while in college, I was falsely blamed by my one of the relative that I smoke a lot. May be he might have seen me in the group of chain smokers. But I knew very well it was false, but how to defend myself was a big issue, because in this age anyone could believe it easily. My Grandfather Nana was also apprehensive but he didn't react badly rather he showed his concern with all sympathy. My Uncle however went on proving my false blame and he chided me stop going to college rather. I felt very badly because he was not supporting me financially simply blaming. But I didn't react and keep studying well. At last, I was the winner!!!
ReplyDeleteउन दिनों में हाई स्कूल में पढ़ती थी।मेरी एक सहेली थी एक दिन मुझे एक लड़की ने कहा कि तुम्हारी सहेली ने तुम्हारी कलम चुरा ली। जब मुझे इसका पता चला तो बहुत दुख हुआ क्योंकि मैं तो उस पर पूरा भरोसा करती थी। मैंने उसे बहुत ही बुरा भला कह दिया। पर कुछ ही दिनों के बाद पता चला कि उसने मेरी कलम चुराई नहीं थी बल्कि लिखने के लिए ली थी फिर उसने वह कलम मुझे लौटा दी, यह कहकर कि उसने कि उस दिन वह अपनी कलम घर भूल कर आ गई थी। मुझे अपने आप पर बहुत ही क्रोध आया, काश मैं अपनी बातों से अपनी सहेली का दिल न दुखाती।
ReplyDeleteOnce we were playing 'passing the parcel'. When the packet came to me it read "give it to the person who looks like a dog." I did not know whom to pass it on. My peers pointed to a boy.i ran and gave it to him. The boy was quite sad and I realised my mistake. I wish I had not listened to my peers and would not have passed it on!
ReplyDeleteIn school and College Life every student wants to look cool with cigarette in hand and making smoke rings. I also tried this several times but unfortunately failed. Moreover I didn't like the test also.
ReplyDeleteMy friend asked me to bunk classes to watch new movie. I denied.
ReplyDeleteIt was that phase of my life when I was in my teenagehood. I was in the 9 th standard.All along my life upto now I am too much fond of flowers. In those days I used to steal flowers from others gardens attached to my High School building.Actually I used to play the role of the mastermind for that mission in our girls group. And the other girls used to appreciate me for that.At that moment of appreciation, I could well remember that I used to feel proud.But now whenever I recall my past, I feel ashamed of it.I shouldn't have do that type of wrong things.Gradually I made understand that loving flowers doesn't mean plucking it from the gardens.
ReplyDelete-Snigdha Choudhuri
Assistant teacher
TATA WORKERS UNION HIGH SCHOOL, SIDHGORA, EAST SINGHBHUM, JAMSHEDPUR
I wanted to look cool in my school
ReplyDeleteI wanted to look beautiful in my school.
ReplyDeleteSUNEETA Assistant Teacher
ReplyDeleteUHS BASWARIYA DEOGHAR
I was a silent and good natured girl .I never indulged in such activities . However I remember one mistake I did, which also is a type of cheating.
Actually I have studied in an English medium school and were told to speak in only English language in the school premises. Anyone who was found talking in hindi was punished.weused to talk in hindi disobeying the teachers,just for fun.We felt we are smart enough not to be caught by the teachers.
Of course nothing happened much.Ut now when I look back and ponder over the matter I feel I would have learnt English language very easily and would have had rich vocabulary at my early student life.
If I had not disobeyed my teachers.
ReplyDelete